Dearest future husband

Hi dearest future husband and soulmate(yes I believe in soulmates),

[I am an Indian girl aged 23.]

I am writing this so that I can show you this later and witness your expressions ;).

I really want you to come soon in my life. I want to give you all the happiness I am capable to give. Since I am very picky about compatibility, I know I am marrying you because we are super compatible. I know you were happy before marriage too, but I will try my best to give you more happiness after marriage.

I promise you the following things(And I expect the same things from you):

  • I will respect you and your family. If there is something bothering me, I will speak about it CLEARLY instead of making it an issue.
  • Divorce can never be a solution. Once I hold your hand, I will never leave it. (Considering there isn’t something really serious issue)
  • If it is my mistake, I will genuinely admit it and say sorry. I believe in resolving everything before going to bed.
  • We will make an agreement- if we find ourselves in an argument, just hug each other. Otherwise also, I want to hug you daily minimum 5 times.
  • A day can’t go without morning and good night kiss :*
  • I am proud to say this that I am not a gold digger. I believe we can earn together whatever we want. But, I expect you to be ambitious because I am.
  • Don’t worry about finances. I earn decently(I work in group A service of Govt of India) and I believe in savings. I am not fan of shopping and eating out everyday. Though I do it once in a while, I know how much to spend.
  • I will give you a treat once in a while.
  • I just love cuddling and I am fan of sleeping with holding hands(Bollywood is to blame). I can totally understand on some days you might not be in a good mood.
  • I am an individualistic person, so you will get your personal space. Because I love it too.
  • I am a huge fan of Indian cricket. So, I can’t wait to enjoy India-Pak match with you. Omg, how much fun will it be!!
  • I haven’t touched alcohol or cigarette yet. I expect you not to be addicted to it. Once in a while is fine.
  • I love to do exercise and it will be great if you can accompany me. Sure, if you are not into it, it’s fine too. But please don’t be a couch person.
  • I will not discuss our problems with anyone unless it’s a very big issue.
  • Now I am anonymous for this one. I am little scared of sex because I heard that it is painful for girls the 1st time she does it. At the same time, I am excited too. Can’t wait to explore this with you. 😉
  • I want to be your best friend. You can share anything with me and I promise I won’t judge you. Also, I like to be clear about pasts. I promise to tell you everything from my past.
  • Dowry is a strict NO. I know we are ahead of this era but still it exists even today. Even if my parents want to give you voluntarily, I expect you to decline it. I love people who have self respect.

However, there are some things which might be little problematic like:

  • I don’t enjoy cooking/ house chores. Though I have done all the house chores(as I lived many years away from home), I really don’t like to do it on daily basis.
  • I am not good in cooking too. I have hardly cooked and still today, I can’t cook complete meal.
  • I love to read and write. So, I devote much time here.
  • I am not very much into prayers and all. I have faith in God, I do the prayer but I don’t believe in strict rituals(daily worship by spending a lot of time which people do at my home).

Rest be assured. Little self bragging now. You will be proud to have me because I was told that I am a combination of cuteness and hotness. I have an awesome health too. 🙂 🙂

Please come soon 🙂

I am waiting.

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