I once had a big quarrel with my sister. I got so upset that all I could do was crying my heart out. Sadness overwhelmed me and we both suffered tremendously from the fight . Later when we both calmed down I chose to forgive her. I told myself this just had to end. Although I chose to forgive the pain she caused to me still etched on my heart. It is like a nail being pulled out from the fence but the scar remains.