Dear future husband from xyz Matrimony..
I know you have certain expectations from your life partner . I don’t promise to abide by whatever you have in your mind previously but I do expect you to let me know.
I’ll try my best to be your good friend , to whom you can share & speak your heart out , if not an ideal life partner.
- You may tell me about your ex , how she cheated on you with your very best friend.
- You may tell me how committment phobic you were because of which your previous relationship/s never worked out
- You may tell me how a small misunderstanding really took a toll on your past relationship/s which could have been otherwise saved. How much you miss your Ex but have finally MOVED ON
- You’re free to tell me that how boring you found that painting exhibition of my friend where you accompanied me & would rather prefer watching the repeat telecast of a cricket match with your buddies.
Tell me all dear .. communication isn’t to be skipped at any cost.
I want to know all
- Your hopes ,dreams , fears, aspirations ,secret evil desires;-).. everything
- You may tell me how despite working hard the promotion you never Got, or that colleague always trying to outdo you to prove a point
I’ll listen with patience .
- I’m a great foodie & also love traveling. I’ll ensure that our alternate weekends are never boring
- During our troubled times you will have my full support, encouragement and understanding and needless to say I expect reciprocation.
I’ll never compare how much more Mr X makes & leads a convenient lifestyle but work harder… Holding your hand , while savouring the little pleasures of life
When your mother criticizes me for my cooking or your sister smirks that you could have got a better match only if you had waited for a few more months,…I don’t expect you to get slaughtered between wife Vs family expectations .. You don’t have to dear hubby!
But I hope we both will be mature enough to deal with such untoward situation, if any, ..arises ;-):-P & also , never forget to hold me tight from the back and gimme a big hug… I lovvvvee hugs^_^^_^ it works wonders for me.
Dear hubby
- All I crave for is not your money, a look from you feeling me wanted , desirable & pretty will make me go jittery & make my day
- Post marriage I don’t care if you have a pot belly or balding hair… I wouldn’t mind if you keep the wet towel on bed ….
But yes one thing it’s clear that I will always stress on you maintaining a good oral hygiene..
Yes .. I wouldn’t mind if caffeine intake and Cigarette smoking are minimised .. no I don’t expect overnight change nor will I force you/ emotionally blackmail you for it.
One more thing, if you wish that I put on tons of make up to appear beautiful so that you can flaunt your” prized catch ” then you’d be definitely disappointed
Also I’m plus sized .. so overnight do not expect me to transform into a hottie.. like any of your gorgeous ex/ es.
You’re free to innocently admire Mrs X , how adorable she is to make me jealous.. but anything which Crosses the line then ohh boyyy ..You just had it from me.. I’ll back out silently without any drama. Heck ! I’m one of those girls who respond I AM NOT FINE ,if things aren’t alright instead of nodding.
Be ready for some straightforwardness then * evil smile emoji*
I don’t understand much about giving a second chance & don’t expect me to be a docile individual .
During the initial meetings that we’d have before the engagement/ wedding I’ll be clear that both the individuals have the right to say NO , at any given time, as per their convenience.. .. so please no fancy first night expectations
Please wait till we’re both at a comfortable with each other & yes , I assure you.. once we’re there.. more often than not I’m gonna initiate and proudly take credit for my libido;-):-P
I have never been approached by the opposite sex , don’t have close male Friends so it’s difficult to know & understand what makes a man happy, what makes a relationship work, & how much sacrifice it takes & trying to figure out when is it NOT OK for either of the partners to let down the guard..
Frankly I don’t understand much if big compromises and sacrifices pave way for a happy, stable and peaceful relationship.
Give me some time, ( ohh did I mention hugs) ;-).. & Let’s give each other a chance
To connect deeply and fill each other’s void
Come let’s rise in love , life and laughter together and embark on this journey ..& create our own bittersweet memories…
Wanna give this nitwit a try …(that too for a lifetime ? ) ;-):-P
That’s all for now,…too long I know:-P
Thanks for your patience
Regards,
Debbie